Posted on10 Feb 2013
Body language speaks volumes about what we’re thinking and feeling. It’s exceptionally helpful to know what your body is saying and what she’s telling you. Most of the time you subconsciously recognize it, but some guys are hopeless and miss all the signs. If you know the signs and you know how to send them at the time you’ll have much greater luck with women, which is ultimately what we’re all here for.
His Body Language
Men are often coached on the body language of women but they learn of their own body language far less frequently. She’s on the lookout for your signs just as much as you’re on the lookout for hers so take the time to know what you’re doing unconsciously and master how to do it consciously. For instance, when a man is interested in a woman he’ll often run his hand through his hair, provided he has hair. Men often subconsciously block other guys from the girl by moving their bodies to form a literal wall. If you like her then do it and let her know that you’re interested. Sometimes your interest alone is flattering enough to get her interested in you.
Make sure your posture is always good. Men with confidence stand tall and those that want to hide tend to slouch. It’s good to push your shoulders back a little bit too. Don’t get crazy with it. When you walk if you sway your shoulders from side to side just a little bit you look more confident and sexy. It takes a little practice but you’ll get it and women will be drawn to you without knowing why. Amazing, isn’t it?
Her Body Language
If a woman is interested in you and your body language she’ll respond with her own set of moves. If you’ve made eye contact from across the room and it seems like there’s a spark keep an eye on her. If she touches her hair gently or plays with it a little she’s into you. If she brushes it aside to reveal her neck, or rubs her wrist and/or arm, chances are good she’s attracted to you and wants you to come over to her. Keep an eye on her body position too. If she’s sitting in an open manner and facing towards you she’s interested, perhaps even in sex. If she’s sitting in a closed off manner then she is definitely not into anything physical. Work your charms and see if you can get her to change position. Then you know you can go in for a kiss.
Universal Body Language
There are some moves that both men and women do. The initiation of simple physical contact is the most common and easy to recognize. If you make a joke and she laughs while reaching out to touch your arm or leg that’s a very good sign. She’s letting you know she’s into you. If you’ve advanced past that sort of touching and you want to show your genuine affection for her, touching the face in a sensual manner is a great way to go. It shows more than just a sexual desire, but attraction on a different level.
Mirroring is a behavior humans often do when they like each other. It’s subtle and typically unconsciously done. You can watch for it though. If you seem to have her attention, try crossing your legs and see if she follows. Shift the position of your hands and see if she does too. The more you practice spotting body language the better you’ll get and soon you’ll be operating on a different plane than all the other players in the club/bar.
